Dentist and more...

Pook did fabulous with his first dental appointment. When the paperwork was sent, a flyer with a photograph of the dentist came also. This enabled us to show him the picture so that when he arrived he would know one familiar face. 

Upon arriving, we weren't sure how things would go. The dental assistant took his sister in first for x-rays, allowing us to stand in the hall and watch. He then got her settled in and brought Pook to his table to lay on. He used lots of hand gestures while speaking, stayed on Pook's level, made constant eye contact, spoke in a soft and gentle voice, and explained each and every thing he was going to do in a way that Pook understood!! Not only did Pookie get his teeth cleaned, he also got them x-rayed! All with no problems!

The dentist office was small, the open bay area had only three tables. Everyone who worked there spoke in a calm, quiet voice. There was no rapid paced footsteps or anyone rushing. This pediatric dentist knew all the right things to do and made sure everyone did it! 

Finding doctors who understand what your child needs is difficult. It took me an entire morning of making phone calls before I found a dentist I thought would work out. I was frustrated spending hours on the phone for  a dentist, but today showed it was worth it. 

Keep in mind though, despite your best efforts, things don't always work out for the best. Sometimes you can't ask enough questions and end up in a doctor office that screams sensory overload! At those times, it's often easier to just walk away and start over again then force your child to go thru, what for them, is a horrible experience that may stay with them for days. 

How can you help others find doctors that are great for children with special needs? Post reviews! Google the name of your doctor office and then write a review. Tell others how wonderful (or horrible) the doctors office is. Also, don't forget word of mouth. Tell others when you talk to them about the wonderful doctor (or in this case dentist) you've found for your child. Email it to all your friends. You never know when they might run into someone looking for the same doctor you've successfully found. 

You've heard the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child." Look for ways you can be that village!!